Genesis
50:15-21
15 Realizing that their father was dead, Joseph’s brothers said,
‘What if Joseph still bears a grudge against us and pays us back in full for
all the wrong that we did to him?’ 16 So they approached Joseph, saying, ‘Your
father gave this instruction before he died, 17 “Say to Joseph: I beg you,
forgive the crime of your brothers and the wrong they did in harming you.” Now
therefore please forgive the crime of the servants of the God of your father.’
Joseph wept when they spoke to him. 18 Then his brothers also wept, fell down
before him, and said, ‘We are here as your slaves.’ 19 But Joseph said to them,
‘Do not be afraid! Am I in the place of God? 20 Even though you intended to do
harm to me, God intended it for good, in order to preserve a numerous people,
as he is doing today. 21 So have no fear; I myself will provide for you and
your little ones.’ In this way he reassured them, speaking kindly to them.
Romans
14:1-12
1 Welcome those who are weak in faith, but not
for the purpose of quarreling over opinions. 2 Some believe in eating anything,
while the weak eat only vegetables. 3 Those who eat must not despise those who
abstain, and those who abstain must not pass judgment on those who eat; for God
has welcomed them. 4 Who are you to pass judgment on servants of another? It is
before their own lord that they stand or fall. And they will be upheld, for the
Lord is able to make them stand.
5 Some judge one day to be better
than another, while others judge all days to be alike. Let all be fully
convinced in their own minds. 6 Those who observe the day, observe it in honor
of the Lord. Also those who eat, eat in honor of the Lord, since they give
thanks to God; while those who abstain, abstain in honor of the Lord and give thanks
to God.
7 We do not live to ourselves, and we
do not die to ourselves. 8 If we live, we live to the Lord, and if we die, we
die to the Lord; so then, whether we live or whether we die, we are the Lord’s.
9 For to this end Christ died and lived again, so that he might be Lord of both
the dead and the living.
10 Why do you pass judgment on your
brother or sister? Or you, why do you despise your brother or sister? For we
will all stand before the judgement seat of God. 11 For it is written, ‘As I
live, says the Lord, every knee shall bow to me, and every tongue shall give
praise to God.’ 12 So then, each of us will be accountable to God.
Matthew
18:21-35
21 Then Peter came and
said to him, "Lord, if another member of the church sins against me, how
often should I forgive? As many as seven times?" 22 Jesus said to him,
"Not seven times, but, I tell you, seventy-seven times. 23 "For this
reason the kingdom of heaven may be compared to a king who wished to settle
accounts with his slaves. 24 When he began the reckoning, one who owed him ten
thousand talents was brought to him; 25 and, as he could not pay, his lord
ordered him to be sold, together with his wife and children and all his
possessions, and payment to be made. 26 So the slave fell on his knees before
him, saying, "Have patience with me, and I will pay you everything.' 27
And out of pity for him, the lord of that slave released him and forgave him
the debt. 28 But that same slave, as he went out, came upon one of his fellow
slaves who owed him a hundred denarii; and seizing him by the throat, he said,
"Pay what you owe.' 29 Then his fellow slave fell down and pleaded with
him, "Have patience with me, and I will pay you.' 30 But he refused; then
he went and threw him into prison until he would pay the debt. 31 When his
fellow slaves saw what had happened, they were greatly distressed, and they
went and reported to their lord all that had taken place. 32 Then his lord
summoned him and said to him, "You wicked slave! I forgave you all that
debt because you pleaded with me. 33 Should you not have had mercy on your
fellow slave, as I had mercy on you?' 34 And in anger his lord handed him over
to be tortured until he would pay his entire debt. 35 So my heavenly Father
will also do to every one of you, if you do not forgive your brother or sister
from your heart."
We do not live to
ourselves, and we do not die to ourselves. If we live, we live to the Lord, and
if we die, we die to the Lord; so then, whether we live or whether we die, we
are the Lord’s.
·
Years ago, a
congregation had a serious problem over deciding on a chandelier for the
sanctuary. At a general meeting, the argument went on for hours. Finally one
man stood up and said “Well, I don’t know
if we really need a chandelier. No one here can play the chandelier! No one
here can even spell ‘chandelier’! What we really need is a new light!” Some
controversies are like that!
·
Paul appears to be
writing about controversies he knew about in the Roman Christian community. (He
hadn’t visited them yet.) The eating of meat and the observance of special days
must have caused concern in the congregation. Paul exhorts them not to be
judgemental. He asks and recommends that if these things are done in honor of
the Lord, there is no reason to question them. He also seems to think that
these controversies are what we might call “a tempest in a tea-pot.” They’re probably
important enough to be discussed, but not so vital that the community should be
fractured by quarreling.
·
In our own day, we still
can be judgemental and often over trivia. The word used in classic Lutheran
theology is “Adiaphoria”, meaning things thing neither required nor
forbidden. In other words, things not essential to salvation and things you can
make your own mind up about. Salvation by grace through faith is solid doctrine
as is preaching the Word and celebrating the sacraments; using white or red
wine at Communion is not. Neither are languages, vestments, musical styles, or
where to sit during the worship service. These are things each person or
congregation can make up their own minds about. Some are simply matters of
taste.
·
Paul says that people on
both sides of any of the controversies are doing it to honour the Lord and
should be accepted as such. The “weak in faith” – whatever that meant to Paul –
are to be accepted without using them to aid in opinionated quarreling.
·
As he usually does, Paul
bring the focus back to honouring the Lord rather than satisfying one person or
another’s taste and desires. That the community of Christians is under the
grace and mercy of God is primary: each of us will be accountable to God.
It even goes beyond life and death: so then, whether we live or whether we
die, we are the Lord’s.
·
This is actually
something to take comfort in. Controversies over lesser things make no
difference and neither life nor death make any difference to God’s grace to us.
With that in mind, we are then to live our lives in that grace and we aid and
support each other under that grace. Differences in opinion can be laid aside.
We even serve our sisters and brothers when we point out things that have gone beyond
opinion and have become dangerous to mind, body, or spirit. This so-called
“fraternal correction” is a “tough love” thing.
·
And even in a case like
that, whatever you do, do it in the Lord’s name.
·
In another place, Paul
recommends a similar idea to another group of Christians when he wrote So,
whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do everything for the glory of
God. (1 Corinthians
10:31 NRSV)
·
Whether we eat anything
or just vegetables… whether we eat or fast… whether we observe a festival or
not… whether we live or die, we are the Lord’s. Nothing around us changes that…
even sin, for the call to repentance is always there and the forgiveness of God
never ends.
We do not live to
ourselves, and we do not die to ourselves. If we live, we live to the Lord, and
if we die, we die to the Lord; so then, whether we live or whether we die, we
are the Lord’s.